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MAJOR TOPIC 1: Wage
Peace!
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Postings:
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Asking 'Why?' with
Premature Ferocity
From
a Posting from Readdingz |
Many
people would like to believe that reality is simple. You
just have to have the right intentions and right
decisions will follow. So, Humanity would be neatly
divided between those who are forces of good and those
who are forces of evil. So, let’s all be on the side
of good and be good and everybody will be happy, right?
Wrong. Let me change that last word in the previous
sentence: “No, I don’t agree; I don’t think so!”
Whenever
I declare somebody’s statement to be “correct” or
“true.” I have to be precise with what I actually
mean. If I owned the laptop I’ve been using, and
someone says I own it. I can be precise and say “He is
right!” But what if the other guy expressed an
opinion, a judgment? Could I simply say, “He is
right!” Of course, I could say that and I actually
often do. But in such times I am not speaking precisely,
because what I should really be saying is “I agree!”
(No, I won’t deliberately say “I agree with him, therefore
he is right. I only fall into that line of reasoning
whenever I forget that I am not a proclaimer of what is
right and wrong for the whole world to listen and “be
guided accordingly”; I am only a proclaimer of my own
opinions that agree or disagree with other people's own
opinions.
..........You may say I nitpick now
on a whole lot of semantics and rhetorics, and I can go
along with such judgement (“Yes, you’re right!”
hehehe!) but if I don’t go into self-questioning at
least once in a while, I might actually forget and hear
(mistake!) my voice as “speaking the divine last
word” as the ultimate judge of right and wrong without
even being anywhere near the Biblical Tree of Knowledge.
..........People
are often very passionate and overconfident about our
own personal or organizational opinions and there’s
nothing wrong with that, unless we forget that no matter
how passionate one is or how “sure” s/he feels, it
is still his/her personal view, albeit perhaps a
well-studied opinion of a proven genius! Many agonizing
hours have been spent in fierce quarrels over whose
personal view is the real “divine judgment” in the
contention.
Recently,
I expressed my vehement disagreement with a political
party’s decision and its apparent premise and said
without any qualifying words: “treason is on a higher
plane than corruption!” Many expressed agreement with
me. But to be complete and precise about it, I really
should have said: “I strongly feel that they
should have considered treason to be on a higher plane
than corruption!” and carry no less passion and
sense of confidence in the validity of my assertion. Or
those who read me may have taken it as that, anyway. And
it could have had the same effect as intended. Anyway…
A
question asked in earnest should be followed by a
question mark. In oral conversations, the question mark
is of course invisible but it should be perceptible in
the intonation, body language and overall behavior of
the one articulating the supposed question. In many
instances, however, it “looks” more like a question
followed by a very angry platoon of screaming
exclamation points (“Why!!!!!”).
This
is often understandable but unfortunate. In a many
cases, the mouth can only be pronouncing the word
“Why” but the mind is trying to accommodate at least
two thoughts: “Oh no! It can’t be! This would have
very disastrous effects! This angers me greatly” and
“I wonder why it happened” and “Oh no! It can’t
be! This would have very very disastrous effects! This
angers me so much I could explode!” So, while the
curious part gets articulated in the word why, the anger
part builds up fast that in the few nanoseconds it takes
the mouth to pronounce the monosyllabic word, the
question mark has transformed into an angry battalion of
exclamation points.
Now,
the person is not prepared to hear any answer, because
the question had been forgotten after getting drowned in
a wave of judgments. Having no reverence for the unknown
and being only terrified by it, we often have the
tendency to dismiss as irrelevant what we still don’t
know and proceed to judge because we For clarity of
mind, therefore, we should remind ourselves to only ask
questions with question marks – if we are still asking
we do not know the answer yet; and if we are this angry,
we might never know or understand it. And the ones being
asked may have the tendency to overreact to the
overreaction… so there goes your earnest conversation!
Many
questions are asked and passionately debated where at
least one side of the debaters tend to dismiss the
nuances that figure significantly in the positions of
the other. In debates, this is deliberately done; in
earnest discussions this happens unintentionally. For
the sake of all involved, the quality of the outcome of
the argument or earnest discussion, simple statements
should not be simplistic sentences – nuances ought to
be looked into, understood well, and weighed
judiciously, whether or not it appears at all in the net
resulting summary of the analysis. Usually, the nuances
that are considered in the decision-making are assumed
by one side to be “obvious to all” and assumed by
the other side as non-existent.
It
takes time to find out exactly what nuances played in
the decision-making and exactly how heavily they were
considered and why. Again comes the charge of
“nitpicking on petty considerations” and the more
warhawkish among us grow impatient—“what are we
waiting for?"
Where’s
the rage? why are we not yet in a quarrel mood yet of
‘punishing mood’? Why are we not forming a lynch mob
yet?” Those who are not afraid that a lynch mob can be
formed and agitated to success may have the tendency to
deny that any problem exists.
In
the context of human tendencies so described, people in
a misunderstanding tend to proceed more to the worsening
of it rather than to solving it for the sake of peace
and synergetic strength that a group would need to do
its work or at least to exist in harmony. Some people
feel that as long ay they can blame other people for a
conflict situation within a supposedly friendly
community they have no problem. Some others tend to
thicken the wall between the contending sides by
recruiting all invoved to take sides and be part of
worsening the problem, instead of acting as living
bridges of communication and dialogue and lead to
resolution and reconciliation.
Having
reminded myself of all the foregoing points, and
declaring my openness to be reminded of more, I feel
ready now to proceed to ask my own questions on a
wide-ranging conflict of views (that has spawned highly
emotional judgments).
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Lemuel
Dizon (from LightShare Digest, Issue
No. 2, July-Sept. 2005, p. 29): I
want to share a personal experience on how i became
embarrassed from my impatience. It happened
recently after i ordered two large boxes of crackers in
a nearby grocery store and the man said he would go
inside to get them.
But
he was taking a very long time and i got impatient and
started grumbling to another store man and really
expressed my irritation that it was taking so long just
to get two boxes of crackers.
Then
the man who went inside came out apologizing for the
delay. He said he noticed he noticed some holes in
the first two boxes and decided to look at other boxes
and also saw holes in them. It might be some rats,
he said.
So
he took a long time finding two boxes for me that had no
holes. So the delay was actually in my favor!
I
spologized to him for getting mad but he just smiles and
accepted my payment. Then he told the manager
about the holes.
Before
i left the store, I waved at him and he smiles
again. I guess i still have to learn to find out
things before getting furious about them.
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Learning
to Rebuild Bridges Peacecamp
Core Team Member Ding Reyes, who moderates this on-line
forum, contributes and entire thread among members
of the LightShare e-mail list group, as published
in the second issue (July-Sept. 2005)
of the quarterlt LightShare Digest (now defunct)
and invites others to add their own voices. |
Ding
Reyes: We
all have occasional gaps with our loved-ones and close
friends one
time or
another, and
this
sharing might help you snap out of a situation
before you can even face one like this.
I
was once asked for advice on this dilemma: “My mom and
I had a nasty argument recently, and by now we have
both cooled down our tempers, but we’re still not
talking. I want to end this gap now or at least soon,
and I feel she wants that, too. But we seem to be
waiting for each other to make the first move.
Who
should really make the first move? I hesitate because
although she is the mother and I am only the daughter,
meaning I am outranked, siya naman talaga ang mali sa
nangyari eh!”
I
had long known the mother, too, from way back and I’ve
been familiar with her temper and even her frequent lack
of sound reasoning. I phrased my answer this way:
“Whichever
one of you is ‘higher’ in stature or ‘less
wrong,’ the
more matured would be the one to make the first move.
But if you beat her to it, don’t tell her you are more
matured, because that can start another gap!”
I
didn’t say it would be easy! But it worked!
Thankful
cheers!
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Luis/Loloi
Gorgonio:
Who
will make the first move?
A
couple of months ago my officemate and I were into a nasty quarrel over
differences in expectations – both personal and work-related. I declared to
her: I'd rather be happy than right. She declared the opposite. Since
then, both of us stopped communicating with each other.
So
the "cold war" went on until Monday last week. All the people
in our department were absent. Only the two of us happened to be there at
the 4th Floor. A strange silence filled the room – only the occasional
clicking of PC keys could be heard.
Neither
she nor I bothered or dared to make the first move to fix the row between us.
But in those lucid moments of silence the whole day through, I felt I was too
harsh on her and on myself because neither of us, I thought, deserved such an
oppressive silence.
I
told myself, "I should have respected her ideas in the first place." And
so, I made a resolution to be respectful to her. Still, I haven't been
talking to her, but I have suceeded in maintaining a respectful awareness of
her everytime she is around.
Now,
the way I look at her has been transformed. Her ways and sensibilities as a
person ought to be respected. Maybe I have to make the first move (or be
the first one to talk?) or maybe I have already done so, minus the talking.
Maybe
my attitude to her lately would not change her. But I have changed my
image of her and that would be my basis of relating with her in the future.
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Lemuel
Dizon:
I
agree with you (Luis) that you have already started the
healing process because your attitude to her has changed.
Of course the follow-through is needed.
Almost
the same thing happened to me, too. It was not even
for a whole day that there was eerie silence between us,
only about an hour because the other officemates started
coming for work on time. We two had both come to the
office earlier than the official time. Before that
hour was over, the healing also started with self-checking
and a change of attitude about him (the other person was a
man). Then I waited for the chance to smile at him.
That
chance came when the electric current in our office
blinked and restarted both our computers, with both of us
losing much unsaved work. I smiled at
him
while
slowly
shaking
my head. Then I jerked my head. Or did I shrug my
shoulder, I don't remember clearly now. Then he surprised
me by standing up and shaking my hand.
We both
laughed. Still no words. It was almost lunch time
when we finally started talking.
As
I tell officemates who have interpersonal problems, you
start with your attitude, then healing continues from that
point, on!
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Vic
O. Milan: Anyone
in this kind of a dilemma will do well to recall the
kind
of
humility
and
forgiveness practiced by the late Pope John Paul
II.
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Lemiel
Dizon: I
am interested in what you brought up. How did the
late Pope John Paul II make the first move on a gap that
involved him? I can imagine his humility working on
other kinds of problems, but you may know how that
humility pushed him
to
make the
first
move. Or was his humility useful in preventing gaps
between and other people? I'd be interested in that
too! Thanks in advance for
your
answer. It will help me know Pope John Paul
more. Of course, I've always believed that all popes and
all saints are humble or at least most of them. How does
this apply in his particular case?
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Vic
O. Milan:
Pope
John Paul apologized to the Jews because the Catholic
Church did not do enough to stand up for them when they
were persecuted by the Nazis. The most notable, to
my mind, of his virtues was his capacity for forgiveness.
He not only forgave the man (assasin) who fired the bullet
that almost took his life, he went to visit the man in
prison to forgive and bless him.
Whenever
I am tempted to strike back or simply seethe in anger
at someone for a real or imaginary hurt, I just remember
this act of forgiveness by Pope John
Paul II and I immediately feel better. By
the way, just a reminder: there is a real connection
between anger and heart disease! Have a good day.
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Melvin
Candoni (a.k.a. "Melted Candle"): It
was good that Lemuel asked the question about Pope John
Paul, which Vic gave as an example in his own response to
the question "Who should make the first move."
Indeed, the late Pope's gestures on forgiveness -- asking
for it, and also giving it -- deserve emulation.
Lem's sharing of a parallel experience with the one shared
by Loloi helped me because it emphasizes what Loloi said.
There was another question being raised aside from
"who should make the first move" and that is
WHAT is the first move. In the case shared by Sir
Ding that a daughter was
asking whether
it was she or her mother, who was "siya naman
talaga ang mali," who would make the first move.
It seems that the first step was already done. the
daughter had already forgiven her mother and already
wanted the gap ended.
This
was what both Loloi and Lem were saying, that the healing
process had started as soon as the party feeling offended
had an attitude change toward the person and toward their
gap. The disclosure of such reconciliatory attitude
can only come after the attitude change occurred quietly,
even secretly, within the person's heart.
The
first to benefit is the forgiving person's heart, whether
or not the gap is healed. As Vic says, anger, whether seething
anger or sustained anger or both, is hazardous to its
health!
Thank
you, Guys, I am enriched by your sharings!
And
as I always say, "in order to give light, a candle
should be willing to get melted"
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Surf
Reyes: In
my 11-day stay in Pagadian, I
had no access to
the internet
(only the Innernet ) . Now, as
I have found the time to
go through my email, I am happy to read the contributions
from Lemuel, Vic, Melvin, Loloi, Karen, Bebot, etc.,
LightShare is coming back to life!
I
love the expressions of honest feelings in personal experiences
which had been lacking for a while. I love the exchanges,
for instance, on the thread, "Who should make the
first move?".
And
I love Melvin's refined focus on "WHAT should be the
first move?" from his reading of Loloi's piece. I
agree with all that was said, especially, "that the
healing process had started as soon as the party feeling
offended had an attitude change toward the person and
toward their gap."
When
one fully forgives another even if secretly, he withdraws
from the conflict, and the fragmentation is transformed back
to wholeness in him.
And in the reality of the interconnectedness of all consciousness,
even if the other party is not conscious of it, the
negative bond is broken and there can be no friction or
conflict when there is only one "participant."
This
is what happened to Sultan Maguid in the story I recently
shared (in LightShare e-Group) about his ‘conversion.’
He had this war to the death with his political enemies.
In the end he found in his heart forgiveness for his
enemies. He said, "I thought I was seeking justice,
but I realized there can be no justice unless there is
love." He said when he found his inner
conversion, his enemies also changed heart and are no
longer after him.
And
when one breaks the bond of conflict, by withdrawing the
energy that gives life to it, the
"disconnection" becomes a window for the spirit
to flow into and create the situation for the healing to
be manifest in the
outer.
There is really no need to struggle to reach out, only the
openness to respond to the opportunity created by the
spirit. This is what happened to previously warring
Muslims, who, in a chance meeting in a mosque, ended up
spontaneously embracing each other.
This
is what happened in Lemuel's story when the electric
current blinked affecting their computers, that triggered
the serendipitous manifestation of the healing of the
relationship with his officemate.
I
happily look forward to more sharing of this kind:
personal, experiential
Any sharing of honest feelings (from the heart) and
personal experiences I consider true lightsharing. For
each of you is the only one of your kind in the whole
universe, and by knowing you through your experiences, I
know the universe and myself better.
LovePeaceJoy,
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Understand Love, We must Understand the Opposites Peacecamp
Core Team Member Rem Tanauan reveals a Viewpoint that
can prevent many pointless conflicts among people. |
Rem
Tanauan (of the Pathfinder's Commune, shares one
of his planned inputs for the Peacecamp-proper): To
understand Love, we must understand the opposites.
Love
is often an opposite of either fear, hatred and evil.
But Love has no opposite. Fear is the opposite of
courage, hatred is the opposite of forgiveness, and evil
is often the opposite of good. Courage and forgiveness
are both transcendent quality of Love, where they
represent Love as a direct experience. Good and Evil
are, on the other hand, not really opposites at all.
This problem can be understood through the two kinds of
opposites. In the truth of Love, we will see that there
is a thin line that separates the the nature of
opposites: either opposites are complementing or
opposing.
Complementing
opposites are basically natural: light and dark, hot and
cold, high and low, hard and soft. They are all part and
whole of this reality. Nothing separates them except in
our minds. The experience of complementing opposite is
what most spiritual teachings call Oneness.
Oneness is the
ultimate sense of unity. It is deep beneath the physical
reality we see. It is the essence of connectedness, no
matter how different people, things and events may be.
In Oneness, opposites do not oppose; rather, they are
always one and the same. They are in the same spectrum.
Darkness is simply absence of Light, and Coldness is
simply absence of Heat. In absence, we define presence
and vice versa. At first this would be mind-boggling,
but we will further understand this when we understand
the next kind of opposite.
Opposing
opposites are distorted view of the opposite, an
experience we often call Separation.The ultimate
separation ingrained in our beliefs is the opposition of
good and evil. From here, all natural opposites seem to
be always at war with each other: Black versus white,
superior versus inferior, strong versus weak, rich
versus poor, man versus woman. We have always believed
this illusion that it has perpetuated a culture of
survival of the fittest. We destroy each other because
we both believe the other is an enemy rather than a
friend, or we see ourselves more righteous than others.
We have become self-centered creatures that our only
survival is our concern. This primal instinct has wiped
the dinosaur species millions of years ago.
Seeing beyond
the opposites leads us to an awakened soul. We would not
see that the mind and body are separate, more so of
seeing God and humanity. There is no more rift between
two opposites, only understanding them as two
expressions of the same essence. Deepak Chopra, the
poet-prophet of mind/body medicine, says that "good
is the union of all opposites; evil does not
exist." As we operate on this consciousness, we
would never identify evil as the great opponent of good.
Good is the all-encompassing circle that includes all
opposites that naturally mirror each other. No more enemies.
No more evil.
But why do we
still think in opposites. One reason: because the nature
of Love is completely whole that it cannot be
experienced without a conscious mind that can experience
it.
Think of a
flower. A flower is perfect in itself. It behaves on its
own reality without the need of other flowers'
appreciation. But a flower is not conscious of its own
existence. We, human beings who are conscious of our
own, cannot escape the reality of being conscious of
others' existence, be it a fellow human, living beings
such as plants, animals, and inanimate things such as
nature, heavenly bodies. With this consciousness, we see
the flower, appreciate and give name to it. This is the
experience of seeing the flower, as if the flower
experiences itself through us.
Because of this
consciousness, we sense our reality as if separate from
us, an illusion most thinkers call duality. I am here,
you are there. Kahlil Gibran, the poet-mystic author of
The Prophet once said: "Is not the mountain far
more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one
passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the
mountain?" By being down here, we can see the
mountain up there. If we are up in the mountain, we
cannot see the mountain at all.
This is why
opposites exists, not to separate us from everything
that exists, but to be conscious of all of them. Love is
infinite in many ways, expresses in different forms, and
how Love does it is a mystery to all of us. And these
seemingly separate expressions of Love, be it in words,
deeds, objects, persons, creatures, arts, etc., are all
but same manifestation of this Oneness.
This
is why opposites exist not to separate us from anything
that exists, but to be conscious of all of them.
A man
is naturally a man, and his experience is different from
that of a woman. They are different forms of the same
species: homo sapiens aka human beings. Can we really
say that their nature is opposing? How can another human
being be born without a man-woman sexual union? It is
because of their difference--opposite--that they can
complement each other, and their unity bears another
creation, or material unfolding of Love that remains
intangible and invisible.
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Ding Reyes:
In his
article above, Rem points out a very critically valuable
clarification to distinguish the terms
"opposite," "distinct,"
"separate" and "conflicting" among
htmselves. In my Human Holons: Power-Packed
Synergies (2003), i give a similar reminder:
"Distinction should not be allowed to mean
separation; without distinction and diversity all
complementation, harmony and teamwork cannot be
possible; separation is the intellect’s mistaken
negation and denial of the actual fact of Oneness.
"In synergism and the reality of holons,
this is a crucially vital assertion."
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Claire
Madarang (Peacecemp-Masbate Core Group Member): Rem
says: "This is why
opposites exist not to separate us from anything that
exists, but to be conscious of all of them." This is a
much overlooked truth. I also believe that opposites can
give rise to new perspectives and opportunities.
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Peaceful,
Peace-loving Response to an Insult on Filipinos Thread
started by Shyam Tony Reyes, California-based member
of LightShare e-mail list group |
Shyam
Tony Reyes (posted
in LightShare e-group):
(Letter addressed to an Emmanuel, who had shared an
insulting letter from
a Dutch man married to a Filipina.) There is a lot of truth in what he said about the
options the SWAT Team could have taken. It's a learning
situation. that's all we can do positively from what
happened; we should learn as much as we can from it. I tis, however, his presentation of this incident as the
proof of the "idiocy" of Filipino culture is
what's totally mistaken. And that's where it counts the
most in his message. Katrina does not prove a faulty
American culture; it's the faulty economic-political
system that was revealed in that, not the culture;
Hitler does not make German culture; etc.
Truth
is everywhere, so there will always be some truth in
what one says. So we agree that there's some truth to
what he said. However, as Bebot has observed, the
language is a dead giveaway as to the state of mind and
culture the person is in at least at the time of his
writing his tirade of Filipino culture. One can switch
out the country name and some other details with any
nation and he will still be saying some truth.
Do
remember that one's state of mind inevitably and
unavoidably determines what one sees and
interpret/experience/understand. If your state of mind
is holy and divine, you will
see/interpret/experience/understand holiness and
divinity everywhere you go; your divine Child-of-God
energy makes it so, especially since it is the Truth.
You will see that we all occupy the same divine
space-time-energy-consciousness continuum equally, one
no more than the other. It is only in the awareness of
that reality that is not the same for everyone. But
awareness can be changed by one's choosing of what
thoughts to hold and serve.
Another
thing is that it is not a good idea to evaluate a
nation's culture based on their weaknesses and errors.
It is better to see a nation's culture as the common
wealth of that nation, the good things that all of its
people share and make them grow and prosper together.
The other stuff-the bad, the ugly, the destructive, the
ignorance-are the things that block,deplete, and destroy
their culture. Why is this point of view better?
Because, for starters, it puts the beholder in a better
personal space (alpha state would be much preferred as
it is the best functionality level we can easily live
in); and secondly, it empowers that beholder to do
something about nurturing the good and mitigating the
bad.
To
say "nakakahiya" is to blame the
"Filipino culture" for something it has
nothing to do with. The only shame is in not doing
something positive about what is before us. It is always
easier to blame others, but that only perpetuates and
oftentimes worsens the situation; it does not solve or
at least make it better. Let us-each and everyone who
has love in their hearts-make sure we have our
airplane's oxygen mask on first before we try to help
others in an airplane situation. Before we say or do
anything that might be damaging, let's check that we're
stably logged in to our own goodness, that we keep a
lasting awareness of the good within, our
kabutihang-loob, our goodwill for all in full measure,
in its myriad forms, all beautiful and delightful,
mahalikha, creations of love, creations of the Highest.
This is the true culture of the Filipino, rooted in the
Greek word philos, loving. "No love, not a
Filipino." Let us devote ourselves to this
kabutihang-loob cause so that we can make a qualitative
change for the better. There is no stronger root of the
strength of a nation than the goodwill that they share
together equally, simply but powerfully from each one's
mindful awareness of staying in our divine office of
goodness. Let the power of inner goodness flow and
transform our nation.
My
suggestion to our Dutch brother-who vented his current
viewpoint of Filipino culture using the disaster that
just happened as the "smoking gun" of his
perception of what Filipino culture is-is to go to his
good space first, and see how that feels. If he likes
it, he can stay in that feeling, his own ultimate
treasure: his kabutihang-loob. Then he can learn more
about what is at the foundation of Filipino (and
Humankind's) cultural common wealth: kabutihang-loob,
goodwill for all. He apparently needs some love :) but
first he has to find himself worthy of love and give
love to himself. Then he can recognize and accept love
that comes from others, including Filipinos. He might be
pleasantly surprised that his family relations will
improve if he hangs around more in his kabutihang-loob
space more often than not. We are not perfect, but we
(Humankind) are all working at it. We can help each
other do that. Wild generalizations and name-calling
disrespects those who do not fall in the category of
those disrespectful words. It is best to avoid using
them if we are seriously committed to the path of
sharing God's Light and Love.
So
I won't call him names either; instead, I send him my
blessings and prayers for his enlightenment on his own
Divine Truth, his family's Divine Truth, and onward
outward until it encompasses awareness of the Divine
nature of all beings. Life and existence comes from One
Divine Source and there is no life nor existence outside
of It.
Good
day and God bless All!
Shyam
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Robledo-Elizondo
(New
Zealand-based co-founder of Saniblakas Foundation):
i couldn't help but feel immense gratitude
for sharing your divine loving experience/thoughts/being
especially on this one. i think we need doses of these
communicated divine love, wisdom, every so often to help
us live in conscious awareness of who we really are. i
don't exactly know how to express how i feel using my
mind. maybe because i think it's beyond thinking.
salamat :)
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Reyes
(Quezon
City-based member of
Pamayanang Saniblakas,
LightShare, Lambat-Liwanag. Sanib-Sining, etc.):
@Shyam:
Beautifully said! An enlightened view from the TOP
(Transcendent Observation Post). From the silence of
listening, hearing beyond the angry voices the cries for
help from fear...
@Joydee: Ang galing-galing mo! :-) Your mind cannot tell
what your heart knows so well...
salamat :)
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Atty.
Manuel F. Almario
(Quezon
City-based veteran national journalist from Masbate
province; spokesperson, Movement for Thruth in History):
It
is unfortunate that some senators browbeat and threatened
the media for the Aug, 23 hostage tragedy during a public
hearing. The
rescue effort dismally failed not because of the media but
because of the gross incompetence of the police.
The
media are being used as convenient scapegoat to divert
public attention from the government’s bungling.
Former Sen. Aquilino Pimentel said it right: If not
for the media coverage, the public would not know of the
police’s inability to deal with hostage situations of
that scale. The
government is now doing its best to correct the deficiency
and to prevent similar fiascos in the future.
The media should be praised rather than condemned.
Senate
President Juan Ponce Enrile and Sen. Joker Arroyo
criticized media for embarrassing Filipinos before the
world. But
isn’t transparency supposed to be a mark of good
government? Is the prospect that the country would be
embarrassed by the disclosure of government blunders a
reason for muzzling the press?
In fact, Hong Kong media have issued a statement
commending the Philippine press for its adept coverage of
the incident.
Our
senators and officials should learn from the US Supreme
Court decision in the case of New York Times v. United
States, upholding the right of newspapers to publish the
Pentagon Papers. The
US government had claimed the publication of the Pentagon
Papers, which bared lapses in the then ongoing US war
against Vietnam, would endanger national security. In
their concurring opinion, Justices Black and Douglas
wrote:
“In
the First Amendment the Founding Fathers [of the US] gave
the free press the protection it must have to fulfill its
essential role in our democracy.
The press was to serve the governed, not the
governors. The
Government’s power to censor the press was abolished to
that the press would remain forever free to censure the
Government. The
press was protected so that it could bare the secrets of
government and inform the people.
Only a free and unrestrained press can effectively
expose deception in government.
And paramount among the responsibilities of a free
press is the duty to prevent any part of the government
from deceiving the people and sending them off to foreign
lands to die of foreign fevers and foreign shot and shell.
In my view, far from deserving condemnation for
their courageous reporting, the New York Times, the
Washington Post, and other newspapers should be commended
for serving the purpose that the Founding Fathers saw so
clearly.”
And yet the hostage rescue fiasco was not even a
national security matter. It was merely about
“embarrassing” the government.
In that case, even cases of graft and corruption,
human rights violations, jueteng scandals and massacres
should not be published or aired because they cause the
country “embarrassment.”
We might as well abolish the press.
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Reyes
(at the Masbate
Press Summit, Sept. 11, 2010): I
prefer to refuse to answer the question i have just been given, as to who i
think should be blamed primarily for the tragic ending of the recent hostage
crisis in Manila. I will give my opinions, all right, but even as my
mere opinions, i would prefer that they be given after i hear first your clear
answers to my own question on the same matter: Who deserves to be praised
in that incident and its bloody ending? For the sake of peace-loving sense of
responsibility, we do have to suspend our old "convenient" habit of
finger-pointing, and seek instead to start developing a new one, akin to
giving credit where credit is due. How about that? Anyone???
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'Collective
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Ding
Reyes (Sept 2): Our
best bet in any quest for even just the “thinnest slice
of Omniscience” may be collective knowledge. Imagine if
those legendary ten blind men were kept apart by walls of
mutual distrust and prevented from sharing their
observations from their separate hand-scanning probes on
what an elephant really was!
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Dolly
Flosie Palisada
(Sept 2):
Freedom to express opinion, freedom to speak, even freedom
to think according to one's beliefs are the most sought-after freedoms in our democracy. If we will contain our
thoughts inside our mind and not share it with anybody
because we've prevented by fear, mistrust, then the world
will eventually cease to exist. For peoples to co-exist
and the world to grow, we need each and everyone else
idea. Work on it. Actualize it. Use it. Be effective. Let
it work for yourself and other people, above all.
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Rem
Tanauan
(Sept
3):
...and the thickest would be the "collective
unconscious" =)
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'Unpeace
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Thread
started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag |
Ding
Reyes (Aug 24): Yesterday's
hostage-taking tragedy has moved me to realize our
peace-building work as, indeed, very complicated, very
difficult, but very urgently important. Unpeace in one
created unpeace in many. Temptations are increasingly
strong to give up altogether, but they're just that--
temptations. Let's keep right on working, and
review some of our basics in http://lambat-liwanag.8m.net/14.htm.
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Joey
Mamalayan Burgos: You
know, Ding, the problem that I am seeing in our country is
that the people in the government deals with the problem
only once it already happened, most especially when the
tragedy becomes so tragic, have attracted world attention
and created negative
diplomatic repercussions. They tend to be so passive
rather that pro-active in dealing with crises. And to add
insult to injury, the “ningas cogon” metaphor is still
evident. Once the issue died down, everything is back to
normal as if nothing happened. Example: It is only after
an aftermath of a strong typhoon and flooding that the
concerned government agency will lay out their contingency
plans and so on and so forth. Same thing when there are
incidents of fire, earthquake and to say the least, the
last hostage crisis that we had. Blaming and finger
pointing seems to be the name of the game.
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Cel
Cadahing Ocampo (Laguna-based
school teacher):
(We)
Gathered all the pupils and students from Grade 4 to 4th
year in an assembly to discuss about the hostage-taking
incident that happened last night, to negate the
possibility of trauma among our young students. We
followed it with a short but very meaningful discussion on
PEACE and why everybody should choose peace instead
of violence. If only PEACE reigned in everyone's heart!
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Pinky
Serafica: Sky (Pinky's toddler daughter):
"Mommy, bakit ba palagi na lang ang bus na 'yun ang
nasa news?"
My
tongue itched with ready answers about justice, police
brutality, about who is hero and what is villain, about
why life is so short and cheap here. Instead I change the
channel and wonder what to say to a daughter whose peace
and happiness are still intact -- and how not to break
them with my take on this deep unpeace.
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Mom
Pinky’s Response to Daughter Sky
‘Weaving
Peaces Around the People who are Around the People Around
You’
Pinky
Serafica: (Sky is Pinky's toddler daughter):
Dearest,
dearest Sky,
I
finally seize the little time between
writing-cooking-eating to encode this from an earlier
journal entry especially now that you have loudly
complained, "Mommy,
bakit ba palagi na lang ang bus na 'yun ang nasa
news?"
For
girls,
Anak, peace is personal because violence is
immediate and near. I'd like to say it is in the immediate
outside, past the skin, past the sweat, and if we are
lucky, meters away from our aura, away from the protective
circles we cast.
In Facebook, I posted about you singing and dancing and
me, in awe of your happiness. I asked: how do I keep
you happy? Just as your dad asks: how do I keep you
safe?
I
would like to weave peaces around you, my punky-punk-punk,
for as long as you breathe so you are able to sing and
dance, and open people up and be happy with a five-year
old's happiness. But this would mean that I'd have to
weave peaces around those around you to keep your peace
intact. And that means that I'd have to weave peaces
around the people who are around the people around you.
That will take a lifetime. So,
I will start with your peace and mine.
This,
I can do. I will protect your core happiness for as
long as I can until you can protect it, too. That way, the
peace circles will hold.
.
Poong chang, baba,
Skymom
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H.U.G.
-- 'Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill'
Thread
started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag |
Ding
Reyes (Facebook
posting):
H.U.G.
is "Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill." Please
speak out on this, why not promote this
H.U.G. all around? H.U.G. is H.U.G. is
"Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill! With it,
we'd finally have peace within ourselves, in our
circles, families and communities, in the World!
(If you liked this, please frorward or "tag"
to your friends!) Let us send one another this
"HUG Energy" the next few days, weeks
and even beyond! (See.http://readdingz.blogspot.com/2010/harmony-in-unconditional-goodwill,html
and share with me whatever feedback you might receive so
we can upload and share that too. Thanks so
much!
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Tony Reyes (California-based
advocate of human unity ):
Unconditional
goodwill is not only "possible," it already exists
within each of our personal quantum field. Goodwill is
kabutihang-loob, state of being, of vibrational
experience that does not premise its goodness on
external conditions. By our God-given power of
attention, we can attain awareness of and uplifting
nourishment from this inner fountain of life
itself. No inner good inside, no life force.
One realization that helps unconditionality is
realization that we are personally immersed in the Being
of Creator, all of us, equally, one not more than
the other. The difference lies simply in the
capacity to be aware that it is so and act
accordingly. Whether the atom is aware of it or
not, it exists, depends on, and follows the laws of,
thrives in the space-time continuum. So, yes, a
supra-HUG to you and all existence, and One Big Cosmic
Hug to the Transcendent One that made it all possible.
:)
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& Coordinator, SanibDasal Synergetic Interfaith
Praying Community): I love HUGS, love to hug and be hugged! The happy love
energy that comes with a hug stirs the unconditional
goodwill that we all have within us. H.U.G.
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Pagaspas (Resources Generation Officer, ACES)
: I completely believe in H.U.G. However, there
are layers of acceptance
on the 'unconditionality', which is a function
of time. All things can be accepted by a person in his
lifetime. the shortest acceptance duration by a person
is probably a second before he closes his eyes and his
breath already cut off. From the time a person realizes
the issue, have his stand and declares his non-negotiables,
time as an independent factor comes into play. So a
person, through another factor, may be a situation, some
help from persons or things important to him, will be
able to go to another 'level of acceptance' and his
unconditional state will be lessened by a measurable
quantity of acceptance.
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Andes:
No
worries...I'll share it with others. Thanks Ed.
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Lacanilao: Is that really possible among people?
Unconditional??? (answered partially by Shyam Tony
Reyes, in his comment
above).
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[Ding/Ed
Reyes: to Carlos L.: Yes, definitely possible; though
not very probable soon for most of us. We can choose to
attain such
goodwill within ourselves, and this behavior, as
pleasantly radiated, will be contagious. We can decide to
be part of this slow but sure evolution. It's worth the
try!]
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Myrna
de la Paz (based in California): The
violence of poverty is true in Masbate as it is all over
the Philippines. When we talk
about authentic peace in the Philippines, we have to bring
poverty to the forum. Peace as we know is the absence of
violence. Poverty is an insidious form of violence,
therefore an anti-thesis to peace. A state of social and
economic deprivation, poverty devastates a person's
physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Poverty robs
people of their dignity and self-esteem, often causing the
degradation of human values that lead to social decay,
chaos, and crime. Any society that wants to achieve peace
should take a serious look at its poverty index.
...........If
the majority of the population is below the poverty level
(which is the case in the Philippines) then, the menacing,
dark, dangerous specter of violence looms large over that
society. How can peace be achieved in a situation like
this? More than ever it is time for the government,
think-tanks, and grassroots peace groups to come together
and really take an honest look at poverty in the
Philippines. (Granting the new president and
administration is open to this.) The cause of poverty in
the Philippines is systemic. The existing agrarian system
with largely foreign multinational-controlled component is
unable to generate enough decent-paying jobs and
sustainable local services and business. The result is the
very high rate of unemployment which is a cancer in the
economic bloodstream of the country. Desperate for jobs,
many Filipinos take jobs in foreign countries under very
harsh and dangerous working conditions. Many even go to
work in war-torn Iraq!
...........To
think that this is a mind-blowing bomber would be an
understatement. Well, what I believe is it's time for a
paradigm change in the Philippine socio-economic system to
put an end to poverty, and achieve genuine peace. The
solution to the problem of poverty is within reach if the
Filipino people will keep their minds and hearts to the
opportunities of working together with trust, honesty,
love, and a resolute determination to make the change.
...........The
country's leadership needs to set the tone and example for
this change. I mean really change the socio-economic
structure. Simply eradicating corruption is like putting a
bandaid to o a massive, festering, gaping wound: the
system that breeds corruption and all the other
socio-economic disorders including poverty. An
inconvenient truth and a way of life for Filipinos for
centuries, poverty and its violence is real, frightening,
an ugly threat to peace. Poverty in the Philippines should
end. Taking the challenge of a paradigm change in the
socio-economic system of the country is the solution.
...........The
new president, administration, and the Filipino people
should rise to this task. Only then can the Philippines
achieve true peace.
PEACE
ALWAYS,
Myrna
de la Paz.
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Shayne
Merioles: I share this thought and belief. (Myrna's
"The solution to the problem of poverty is within
reach if...") I believe this
is what brought the peacecamp-masbate team together and
this is also what we hope to bring to the consciousness of
fellow Masbatenos/Filipinos
who will participate in this first- ever, and i believe
first-of-a-kind peacecamp initiated by our group of peace
advocates-healers-artists. I echo this. Thanks!
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Tan: The definition of Poverty is the state of being
extremely poor. How does it become violent unless someone
who's in that
level applies physical force intended to hurt others--that
closes in the definition of being violent. Unless someone
is explaining the sub-categories about poverty and it's
outcome; there should be a word that defines this and not
using the word "violence". This is just my
opinion.
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Merioles: One of Galtung's key concepts is structural
violence. Often when we use the term "violence,"
we think of direct
or physical violence. But Galtung has seen how violence
can have many faces, and that evil can exist in many
subtle and evil ways. Structural violence is violence that
does not hurt or kill through fists or guns or nuclear
bombs, but through social structures that produce poverty,
death and enormous suffering. Structural violence may be
political, repressive, economic and exploitative, it
occurs when the social order directly or indirectly causes
human suffering and death.
...........Let me give a few
examples of the existence of such non-physical, but brutal
violence. In the USA 30 million people live below the
poverty line and receive their food from soup kitchens.
Others can do whatever they want. When George Bush now
wants to do a $ 1,35 trillion tax relief, it will reduce
the lived human potential in the poor and perhaps even
cause many deaths. Without using guns, Bush creates a
structural order where the poor are repressed, and rich
get richer. This political move is a subtle kind of
violent act, which is possible in the modern society we
live in today. George Bush is the opposite of Robin Hood:
while Robin Hood stole from the rich and gave to the poor,
George Bush takes from the tax money which could have been
used for welfare, and gives a tax reduction to those who
already are rich."
(source:
Structural Violence & the Autonomy of Morals by
Andreas Saugstad http://goinside.com/01/6/morals.html)
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Needed to Preserve Peace Thread
started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag |
Ding
Reyes: "Nine-Eleven,"
that used commercial planes to bomb out of existence the twin towers of
World Trade Center in New
York, was a heinous crime of unparalleled proportions. It happened on
September 11, 2001, and many American voices, including official U.S.
government pronouncements instantly built up a campaign that cried for
blood. Washington threatened to retaliate with all its might against
terrorism and all suspected of being supporters and sympathizers of
supposed terrorists.
.........The
crime was said to be so atrocious that it purportedly justified action
even without having to prove guilt on the part of anyone. Psy-war flew
thick as the smoke at the crime scene cleared. Entire citizenries were
being agitated to take the side of American grief and indignation. Those
who dared to publicly doubt the official story were suspected and
targeted for harassment.
.........But
Humankind was not about to be drawn into a stampede of hate.
Peace-loving people around the world, including many Americans, held
prayer and discussion sessions for peace to hold against the fires of
collective fury.
.........And
as ancient future-seer Nostradamus came to be quoted, a group of
peace-lovers in the Philippines brought to life a counterpart character
crying out loud for keeping our sanity in sobriety. That call, in ten
quatrains, was Our Truth. And his name was "Nostraverus."
.........Let's
read and discuss those insightful quatrains of that collective poem in
this web page: http://saniblakas.faithweb.com/NOSTRAVERUS.htm.
And learn timeless valuable lessons about peace and its much needed
defense.
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Villanueva (leader in cooperativism):
The
9-11 attacks were atrocious.
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Reyes: They were atrocious, but not a valid excuse to
skip due process esp. the necessity to prove the guilt of
any suspect
about to be punished with counter-atrocities.
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Villanueva: 9-11 and other terrorist attacks do not
justify the sufferings of innocents anywhere from whatever
source, but they
justify every action to stamp out terrorism using military
and other means. They are attacks on humanity, and so are
the attacks on, say, MV Rachel Corrie by Israel.
Humanity is at war with terrorists and warmaking states
and peacemakers must see this as starting point unless
they want the peace of cowards without conviction.
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Ding
Reyes: the other extreme is to favor endless
overreactions to overreactions, like the US overreactions
to their own suspicions
about Iraqi WMDs (weapons of mass destruction), mounting a
full-scale invasion the UN security council had voted
against, and unable to find any WMDs, admitted later by
CIA to have been unproven, settled for capturing the Iraqi
oil supply, while keeping the attempt to project a
"moral high ground" for themselves as policemen
of the world, and getting the Philippines and Spain into
the coalition of the gullible (at least not of the
cowards?). Peace, Erik!
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Deveraturda (businessman in Zambales): Any act that
results in the death or injury of parties not directly
involved in the game
of war or struggle is inhuman and would easily fall under
the category of terrorism. Be it by a group of
like-believers or by a nation that thinks it has
policeman's role to play in the world's politico-economic
arena. We must condemn any and all acts that kill innocent
lives, destroy peace and squander our chance to Live as
One.
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Villanueva: You are right, they are not cowards in a
sense. but to get along with your US-bashing, they are
cowards in the
sense that they take on only militarily weak Iraq and
Afghanistan and leaves China and the Saudis alone. despite
US bunglings, saying there is no basis for the war on
terror will not make peacemaking credible. Yea, man!
Peace, man!
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Reyes: I've been called names before, and "US
basher" has been among them. In the Epilogue of my
book, Demands of Dignity,
launched February 4 last year
(http://demands-dignity.8m.net), explain my attitude that
terrorist attacks even of the distant past have to be
remembered and learned from: "Inevitably, eventually,
and ultimately, all wrongs cry out to be fully
acknowledged, regretted and set aright. Your peace of mind
now and in the future demands it. Your very dignity
demands it." If we are to apply my friend Rex
Deveraturda's point above to the Nuclear bombing of both
Hiroshima and Nagasaki in Japan exactly 65 years ago
today, in August 6, 1945, it would not be mere "US
bashing" to say those twin bombings in the two cities
are terrorist acts not to be forgotten just because the
Nine-Eleven bombings were allededly by "Al Quaeda
terrorists" while those in Japan were even proudly
claimed officially by the government of the US of A.
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Anger
Punishes... the Angry! Thread
started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag |
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Ding
Reyes: "Anger
Punishes.
Anger
unreasonably punishes... the Angry."
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Merioles: True. This is why i always forgive,
always surrender, always let go, more often, cry the
hurt/pain away. It
works!
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Reyes: Peace pa rin ba yon, kahit unfair sa 'yo? Kahit you feel
there is something you need to weep about?.
(Nagi-guilty
tuloy ako... have i driven you to tears without even knowing it? Sorry!
Sana, kahit di mo ako komprontahin, dahil hindi ka nga confrontational,
'umaray' ka man lang sana, para ma-lift ko ang paa kong nakatapak pala
sa paa mo!) Is your response still peace?
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Shayne Merioles: It
is peace. I do not
even wish to inflict suffering on my "offender(s)."
I temporarily take on the "burden." And
in the suffering act of crying , it's as if the Universe
is my surgeon, my mother, my healer. She takes care of my
anger, loneliness, agony -- she takes them away. She takes
care of those who have trespassed against me.
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Ding
Reyes: Sabagay, i once wrote a poem which says, in part...
(This
poem, For
Stronger Souls and Soles, may
be read in
http://bookmakers-phils.8m.net/wishpers-1.htm#13.)
On
that path are many a pebble,
That
annoy us as irritating prickles;
But
little things need not cause trouble
Had
we only learned to feel them as tickles.
Souls
that still have so much to discover
Can
understandably be quite irritable;
Grains,
pebbles, they’d try to shun forever,
Realizing
later they’d never be able.
Light
of Wisdom shining in our souls
On
such attitudes seeks an amendment—
Little
things that irritate our soles
Can
just be objects of amusement.
Let's get back to the subject of anger. As long as there's no anger that
needs to be repressed. Yun, malinaw pa sigurong may peace pa rin doon.
You feel the pain without suffering that pain. Drain the sorrow or
indignation, as tears always have to be drained, while it could still
cause the tears to mount within your heart (tear glands, actually), but
learn the soonest to be protected by your wisdom not to be affected that
much anymore. Maybe you have already attained that state or are already
close to it! Malayo pa yata ako, eh! And my anger still punishes me
terribly with the feeling of being angry.
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Jenny
Marie Aquino: Do
you get angry often? Do you blow your top over small
matters? Remember, when you get angry, you're
actually hurting yourself. Your sleep, your appetite your
blood pressure and your health are affected. Even your
looks become hardened. In anger you can't think straight.
An angry person can't find peace of mind.
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Heartthrob: Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry
with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the
right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy.
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