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Asking 'Why' with Premature Ferocity (Ding Reyes)

    Responses: Lemuel Dizon

Learning to Rebuild Bridges(Ding Reyes)

     Responses: Luis Gorgonio, Lemuel Dizon, Vic Milan, Melvin Candoni, Surf Reyes

To Understand Love, We must Understand the Opposites (Rem Tanauan)

     Responses: Ding Reyes, Claire Madarang

Peaceful, Peace-Loving Response to an Insult on Filipinos (Shyam Tony Reyes)

   Responses: Joydee R. Elizondo, Surf Reyes, Manuel Almario, Ding Reyes

'Collective Knowledge -- for Thinnest Slice of Omniscience' (Ding Reyes)

   Responses: Dolly Flosie Palisada, Rem Tanauan

Unpeace in One Causes Unpeace in Many (Ding Reyes)

   Responses: Joey Mamalayan Burgos, Cel C. Ocampo, Pinky Serafica

Full Info Leads the Wise to Peace (Manuel Almario)

   Responses: Ding Reyes

H.U.G.-Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill  (Ding Reyes)

   Responses: Shyam Tony Reyes, Mila 'Sam' Garcia, Rolly Pagaspas, Arlene Andes, Carlos Lacanilao

Violence in Masbate, in the Philippines (Myrna de la Paz)

   Responses: Shayne Merioles, Ickx Tan 

Sobriety Needed to Preserve Peace  (Ding Reyes)

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Anger Punishes... the Angry  (Ding Reyes)

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Asking 'Why?' with Premature Ferocity

From a Posting from Readdingz

Many people would like to believe that reality is simple. You just have to have the right intentions and right decisions will follow. So, Humanity would be neatly divided between those who are forces of good and those who are forces of evil. So, let’s all be on the side of good and be good and everybody will be happy, right? Wrong. Let me change that last word in the previous sentence: “No, I don’t agree; I don’t think so!”

Whenever I declare somebody’s statement to be “correct” or “true.” I have to be precise with what I actually mean. If I owned the laptop I’ve been using, and someone says I own it. I can be precise and say “He is right!” But what if the other guy expressed an opinion, a judgment? Could I simply say, “He is right!” Of course, I could say that and I actually often do. But in such times I am not speaking precisely, because what I should really be saying is “I agree!” (No, I won’t deliberately say “I agree with him, therefore he is right. I only fall into that line of reasoning whenever I forget that I am not a proclaimer of what is right and wrong for the whole world to listen and “be guided accordingly”; I am only a proclaimer of my own opinions that agree or disagree with other people's own opinions.

..........You may say I nitpick now on a whole lot of semantics and rhetorics, and I can go along with such judgement (“Yes, you’re right!” hehehe!) but if I don’t go into self-questioning at least once in a while, I might actually forget and hear (mistake!) my voice as “speaking the divine last word” as the ultimate judge of right and wrong without even being anywhere near the Biblical Tree of Knowledge.

..........People are often very passionate and overconfident about our own personal or organizational opinions and there’s nothing wrong with that, unless we forget that no matter how passionate one is or how “sure” s/he feels, it is still his/her personal view, albeit perhaps a well-studied opinion of a proven genius! Many agonizing hours have been spent in fierce quarrels over whose personal view is the real “divine judgment” in the contention.

Recently, I expressed my vehement disagreement with a political party’s decision and its apparent premise and said without any qualifying words: “treason is on a higher plane than corruption!” Many expressed agreement with me. But to be complete and precise about it, I really should have said: “I strongly feel that they should have considered treason to be on a higher plane than corruption!” and carry no less passion and sense of confidence in the validity of my assertion. Or those who read me may have taken it as that, anyway. And it could have had the same effect as intended. Anyway…

A question asked in earnest should be followed by a question mark. In oral conversations, the question mark is of course invisible but it should be perceptible in the intonation, body language and overall behavior of the one articulating the supposed question. In many instances, however, it “looks” more like a question followed by a very angry platoon of screaming exclamation points (“Why!!!!!”).

This is often understandable but unfortunate. In a many cases, the mouth can only be pronouncing the word “Why” but the mind is trying to accommodate at least two thoughts: “Oh no! It can’t be! This would have very disastrous effects! This angers me greatly” and “I wonder why it happened” and “Oh no! It can’t be! This would have very very disastrous effects! This angers me so much I could explode!” So, while the curious part gets articulated in the word why, the anger part builds up fast that in the few nanoseconds it takes the mouth to pronounce the monosyllabic word, the question mark has transformed into an angry battalion of exclamation points.

Now, the person is not prepared to hear any answer, because the question had been forgotten after getting drowned in a wave of judgments. Having no reverence for the unknown and being only terrified by it, we often have the tendency to dismiss as irrelevant what we still don’t know and proceed to judge because we For clarity of mind, therefore, we should remind ourselves to only ask questions with question marks – if we are still asking we do not know the answer yet; and if we are this angry, we might never know or understand it. And the ones being asked may have the tendency to overreact to the overreaction… so there goes your earnest conversation!

Many questions are asked and passionately debated where at least one side of the debaters tend to dismiss the nuances that figure significantly in the positions of the other. In debates, this is deliberately done; in earnest discussions this happens unintentionally. For the sake of all involved, the quality of the outcome of the argument or earnest discussion, simple statements should not be simplistic sentences – nuances ought to be looked into, understood well, and weighed judiciously, whether or not it appears at all in the net resulting summary of the analysis. Usually, the nuances that are considered in the decision-making are assumed by one side to be “obvious to all” and assumed by the other side as non-existent.

It takes time to find out exactly what nuances played in the decision-making and exactly how heavily they were considered and why. Again comes the charge of “nitpicking on petty considerations” and the more warhawkish among us grow impatient—“what are we waiting for?"

Where’s the rage? why are we not yet in a quarrel mood yet of ‘punishing mood’? Why are we not forming a lynch mob yet?” Those who are not afraid that a lynch mob can be formed and agitated to success may have the tendency to deny that any problem exists.

In the context of human tendencies so described, people in a misunderstanding tend to proceed more to the worsening of it rather than to solving it for the sake of peace and synergetic strength that a group would need to do its work or at least to exist in harmony. Some people feel that as long ay they can blame other people for a conflict situation within a supposedly friendly community they have no problem. Some others tend to thicken the wall between the contending sides by recruiting all invoved to take sides and be part of worsening the problem, instead of acting as living bridges of communication and dialogue and lead to resolution and reconciliation.

Having reminded myself of all the foregoing points, and declaring my openness to be reminded of more, I feel ready now to proceed to ask my own questions on a wide-ranging conflict of views (that has spawned highly emotional judgments).

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 Lemuel Dizon (from LightShare Digest, Issue No. 2, July-Sept. 2005, p. 29): I want to share a personal experience on how i became embarrassed from my impatience.  It happened recently after i ordered two large boxes of crackers in a nearby grocery store and the man said he would go inside to get them.

But he was taking a very long time and i got impatient and started grumbling to another store man and really expressed my irritation that it was taking so long just to get two boxes of crackers.

Then the man who went inside came out apologizing for the delay.  He said he noticed he noticed some holes in the first two boxes and decided to look at other boxes and also saw holes in them.  It might be some rats, he said.

So he took a long time finding two boxes for me that had no holes.  So the delay was actually in my favor!

I spologized to him for getting mad but he just smiles and accepted my payment.  Then he told the manager about the holes.

Before i left the store, I waved at him and he smiles again.  I guess i still have to learn to find out things before getting furious about them.

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Learning to Rebuild Bridges 

Peacecamp Core Team Member Ding Reyes, who moderates this on-line forum, contributes and entire thread among members of  the LightShare e-mail list group, as published in the second issue (July-Sept.  2005) of the quarterlt LightShare Digest (now defunct) and invites others to add their own voices. 

Ding Reyes: We all have occasional gaps with our loved-ones and close  friends  one  time  or another,  and   this  sharing might help you snap out of a situation before you can even face one like this.

I was once asked for advice on this dilemma: “My mom and I had a nasty ar­gument recently, and by now we have both cooled down our tempers, but we’re still not talking. I want to end this gap now or at least soon, and I feel she wants that, too.  But we seem to be waiting for each other to make the first move. 

Who should really make the first move? I hesitate because although she is the mother and I am only the daughter, meaning I am outranked, siya naman talaga ang mali sa nangyari eh!

I had long known the mother, too, from way back and I’ve been familiar with her temper and even her frequent lack of sound reasoning. I phrased my answer this way:

 “Whichever one of you is ‘higher’ in stature or ‘less wrong,’ the more matured would be the one to make the first move.  But if you beat her to it, don’t tell her you are more matured, because that can start another gap!”

I  didn’t say it would be easy!  But it worked!

Thankful cheers!

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Luis/Loloi Gorgonio: Who will make the first move?

A couple of months ago my officemate and I were into a nasty quarrel over differences in expectations – both personal and work-related. I declared to her: I'd rather be happy than right. She declared the opposite.  Since then, both of us stopped communicat­ing with each other.    

So the "cold war" went on until Monday last week.  All the people in our department were absent.  Only the two of us happened to be there at the 4th Floor.  A strange silence filled the room – only the occasional clicking of PC keys could be heard.

Neither she nor I bothered or dared to make the first move to fix the row between us.  But in those lucid moments of silence the whole day through, I felt I was too harsh on her and on myself because neither of us, I thought, deserved such an oppressive silence.

I told myself, "I should have respected her ideas in the first place."  And so, I made a resolution to be respectful to her.  Still, I haven't been talk­ing to her, but I have suceeded in maintaining a respectful awareness of  her everytime she is around.

Now, the way I look at her has been transformed. Her ways and sensibilities as a person ought to be respected.  Maybe I have to make the first move (or be the first one to talk?) or maybe I have already done so, minus the talking. 

Maybe my attitude to her lately would not change her.  But I have changed my image of her and that would be my basis of relating with her in the future.

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Lemuel Dizon

I agree with you (Luis) that you have already started the healing process because your attitude to her has changed. Of course the follow-through is needed. 

Almost the same thing happened to me, too.  It was not even for a whole day that there was eerie silence between us, only about an hour because the other officemates started coming for work on time. We two had both come to the office earlier than the official time.  Before that hour was over, the healing also started with self-checking and a change of attitude about him (the other person was a man). Then I waited for the chance to smile at him.

That chance came when the electric current in our of­fice blinked and restarted both our computers, with both of us losing much unsaved work. I smiled   at   him   while   slowly shaking my head. Then I jerked my head. Or did I shrug my shoulder, I don't remember clearly now. Then he surprised me by standing up and shaking my hand.  We  both laughed. Still no words.  It was almost lunch time when we finally started talking. 

As I tell officemates who have interpersonal problems, you start with your attitude, then healing continues from that point, on! 

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Vic O. Milan: Anyone in this kind of a dilemma will do well to recall the  kind  of  humility  and  forgiveness practiced by the late Pope John Paul II.

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Lemiel Dizon: I am interested in what you brought up.  How did the late Pope John Paul II make the first move on a gap that involved him?  I can imagine his humility working on other kinds of problems, but you may know how that humility pushed  him  to make  the  first move. Or was his humility useful in preventing gaps between and other people?  I'd be interested in that too! Thanks in advance  for  your  answer.  It will help me know Pope John Paul more. Of course, I've always believed that all popes and all saints are humble or at least most of them. How does this apply in his particular case?

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Vic O. Milan: 

Pope John Paul apologized to the Jews because the Catholic Church did not do enough to stand up for them when they were persecuted by the Nazis.  The most notable, to my mind, of his virtues was his capacity for forgiveness.  He not only forgave the man (assasin) who fired the bullet that almost took his life, he went to visit the man in prison to forgive and bless him.

Whenever I am tempted to strike back or simply seethe in anger at someone for a real or imaginary hurt, I just remember this act of forgive­ness by Pope John Paul II and I immediately feel better.  By the way, just a reminder: there is a real connection between anger and heart disease!  Have a good day.

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Melvin Candoni (a.k.a. "Melted Candle"): It was good that Lemuel asked the question about Pope John Paul, which Vic gave as an example in his own response to the question "Who should make the first move."  Indeed, the late Pope's gestures on forgiveness -- asking for it, and also giving it -- deserve emulation.  Lem's sharing of a parallel experience with the one shared by Loloi helped me because it emphasizes what Loloi said.  There was another question being raised aside from "who should make the first move" and that is WHAT is the first move.  In the case shared by Sir Ding that a daughter was  asking whether it was she or her mother, who was "siya naman talaga ang mali," who would make the first move.  It seems that the first step was already done. the daughter had al­ready forgiven her mother and already wanted the gap ended.

This was what both Loloi and Lem were saying, that the healing process had started as soon as the party feeling offended had an attitude change toward the person and toward their gap. The disclosure of such re­conciliatory at­titude can only come after the attitude change occurred quietly, even secretly, within the person's heart.

The first to benefit is the forgiving person's heart, whe­ther or not the gap is healed. As Vic says, anger, whether seething anger or sustained anger or both, is hazardous to its health!

Thank you, Guys, I am enriched by your sharings!

And as I always say, "in order to give light, a candle should be willing to get melted"

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Surf Reyes: In my 11-day stay in Pagadian,  I had no access  to the internet (only the Innernet ) . Now,  as I have  found  the time to go through my email, I am happy to read the contributions from Lemuel, Vic, Melvin, Loloi, Karen, Bebot, etc., LightShare is coming back to life!

I love the expressions of honest feelings in personal experi­ences which had been lacking for a while. I love the exchanges, for instance, on the thread, "Who should make the first move?".

And I love Melvin's refined focus on "WHAT should be the first move?" from his reading of Loloi's piece. I agree with all that was said, especially, "that the healing process had started as soon as the party feeling offended had an attitude change toward the person and toward their gap."

When one fully forgives another even if secretly, he withdraws from the conflict, and the fragmentation is transformed  back  to wholeness   in him. And in the reality of the interconnectedness of all con­sciousness, even if the other party is not conscious of it, the negative bond is broken and there can be no friction or conflict when there is only one "participant."

This is what happened to Sultan Maguid in the story I recently shared (in LightShare e-Group) about his ‘conversion.’ He had this war to the death with his political enemies. In the end he found in his heart forgiveness for his enemies. He said, "I thought I was seeking justice, but I realized there can be no justice unless there is love." He said when he found his inner conversion, his enemies also changed heart and are no longer after him. 

And when one breaks the bond of conflict, by withdrawing the energy that gives life to it, the "disconnection" becomes a window for the spirit to flow into and create the situation for the healing to be manifest in the 

outer. There is really no need to struggle to reach out, only the openness to respond to the opportunity created by the spirit. This is what happened to previously warring Muslims, who, in a chance meeting in a mosque, ended up spontaneously embracing each other.

This is what happened in Lemuel's story when the electric current blinked affecting their computers, that triggered the serendipitous manifestation of the healing of the relationship with his officemate.

I happily look forward to more sharing of this kind: personal, experiential  Any sharing of honest feelings (from the heart) and personal experiences I consider true lightsharing. For each of you is the only one of your kind in the whole universe, and by knowing you through your experiences, I know the universe and myself better.

LovePeaceJoy,

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To Understand Love, We must Understand the Opposites

Peacecamp Core Team Member Rem Tanauan reveals a Viewpoint that can prevent many pointless conflicts among people.

Rem Tanauan (of the Pathfinder's Commune, shares one of his planned inputs for the Peacecamp-proper):  To understand Love, we must understand the opposites.

    
Love is often an opposite of either fear, hatred and evil. But Love has no opposite. Fear is the opposite of courage, hatred is the opposite of forgiveness, and evil is often the opposite of good. Courage and forgiveness are both transcendent quality of Love, where they represent Love as a direct experience. Good and Evil are, on the other hand, not really opposites at all. This problem can be understood through the two kinds of opposites. In the truth of Love, we will see that there is a thin line that separates the the nature of opposites: either opposites are complementing or opposing.

     Complementing opposites are basically natural: light and dark, hot and cold, high and low, hard and soft. They are all part and whole of this reality. Nothing separates them except in our minds. The experience of complementing opposite is what most spiritual teachings call Oneness.

     Oneness is the ultimate sense of unity. It is deep beneath the physical reality we see. It is the essence of connectedness, no matter how different people, things and events may be. In Oneness, opposites do not oppose; rather, they are always one and the same. They are in the same spectrum. Darkness is simply absence of Light, and Coldness is simply absence of Heat. In absence, we define presence and vice versa. At first this would be mind-boggling, but we will further understand this when we understand the next kind of opposite.

     Opposing opposites are distorted view of the opposite, an experience we often call Separation.The ultimate separation ingrained in our beliefs is the opposition of good and evil. From here, all natural opposites seem to be always at war with each other: Black versus white, superior versus inferior, strong versus weak, rich versus poor, man versus woman. We have always believed this illusion that it has perpetuated a culture of survival of the fittest. We destroy each other because we both believe the other is an enemy rather than a friend, or we see ourselves more righteous than others. We have become self-centered creatures that our only survival is our concern. This primal instinct has wiped the dinosaur species millions of years ago.

     Seeing beyond the opposites leads us to an awakened soul. We would not see that the mind and body are separate, more so of seeing God and humanity. There is no more rift between two opposites, only understanding them as two expressions of the same essence. Deepak Chopra, the poet-prophet of mind/body medicine, says that "good is the union of all opposites; evil does not exist." As we operate on this consciousness, we would never identify evil as the great opponent of good. Good is the all-encompassing circle that includes all opposites that naturally mirror each other. No more enemies. No more evil.

     But why do we still think in opposites. One reason: because the nature of Love is completely whole that it cannot be experienced without a conscious mind that can experience it.

     Think of a flower. A flower is perfect in itself. It behaves on its own reality without the need of other flowers' appreciation. But a flower is not conscious of its own existence. We, human beings who are conscious of our own, cannot escape the reality of being conscious of others' existence, be it a fellow human, living beings such as plants, animals, and inanimate things such as nature, heavenly bodies. With this consciousness, we see the flower, appreciate and give name to it. This is the experience of seeing the flower, as if the flower experiences itself through us.

     Because of this consciousness, we sense our reality as if separate from us, an illusion most thinkers call duality. I am here, you are there. Kahlil Gibran, the poet-mystic author of The Prophet once said: "Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain?" By being down here, we can see the mountain up there. If we are up in the mountain, we cannot see the mountain at all.

     This is why opposites exists, not to separate us from everything that exists, but to be conscious of all of them. Love is infinite in many ways, expresses in different forms, and how Love does it is a mystery to all of us. And these seemingly separate expressions of Love, be it in words, deeds, objects, persons, creatures, arts, etc., are all but same manifestation of this Oneness.

    
This is why opposites exist not to separate us from anything that exists, but to be conscious of all of them.

     A man is naturally a man, and his experience is different from that of a woman. They are different forms of the same species: homo sapiens aka human beings. Can we really say that their nature is opposing? How can another human being be born without a man-woman sexual union? It is because of their difference--opposite--that they can complement each other, and their unity bears another creation, or material unfolding of Love that remains intangible and invisible.

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Ding Reyes: In his article above, Rem points out a very critically valuable clarification to distinguish the terms "opposite," "distinct," "separate" and "conflicting" among htmselves.  In my Human Holons: Power-Packed Synergies (2003), i give a similar reminder:

"Distinction should not be allowed to mean separation; without distinction and diversity all complementation, harmony and teamwork cannot be possible; separation is the intellect’s mistaken negation and denial of the actual fact of Oneness.  

"In synergism and the reality of holons, this is a crucially vital assertion."

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Claire Madarang (Peacecemp-Masbate Core Group Member): Rem says: "This is why opposites exist not to separate us from anything that exists, but to be conscious of all of them."   This is a much overlooked truth. I also believe that opposites can give rise to new perspectives and opportunities. :) 

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Peaceful, Peace-loving Response to an Insult on Filipinos

Thread started by Shyam Tony Reyes, California-based member of  LightShare e-mail list group

Shyam Tony Reyes (posted in LightShare e-group): (Letter addressed to an Emmanuel, who had shared an insulting letter from a Dutch man married to a Filipina.) There is a lot of truth in what he said about the options the SWAT Team could have taken. It's a learning situation. that's all we can do positively from what happened; we should learn as much as we can from it. I tis, however, his presentation of this incident as the proof of the "idiocy" of Filipino culture is what's totally mistaken. And that's where it counts the most in his message. Katrina does not prove a faulty American culture; it's the faulty economic-political system that was revealed in that, not the culture; Hitler does not make German culture; etc.

Truth is everywhere, so there will always be some truth in what one says. So we agree that there's some truth to what he said. However, as Bebot has observed, the language is a dead giveaway as to the state of mind and culture the person is in at least at the time of his writing his tirade of Filipino culture. One can switch out the country name and some other details with any nation and he will still be saying some truth.

 Do remember that one's state of mind inevitably and unavoidably determines what one sees and interpret/experience/understand. If your state of mind is holy and divine, you will see/interpret/experience/understand holiness and divinity everywhere you go; your divine Child-of-God energy makes it so, especially since it is the Truth. You will see that we all occupy the same divine space-time-energy-consciousness continuum equally, one no more than the other. It is only in the awareness of that reality that is not the same for everyone. But awareness can be changed by one's choosing of what thoughts to hold and serve.

 Another thing is that it is not a good idea to evaluate a nation's culture based on their weaknesses and errors. It is better to see a nation's culture as the common wealth of that nation, the good things that all of its people share and make them grow and prosper together. The other stuff-the bad, the ugly, the destructive, the ignorance-are the things that block,deplete, and destroy their culture. Why is this point of view better? Because, for starters, it puts the beholder in a better personal space (alpha state would be much preferred as it is the best functionality level we can easily live in); and secondly, it empowers that beholder to do something about nurturing the good and mitigating the bad.

 To say "nakakahiya" is to blame the "Filipino culture" for something it has nothing to do with. The only shame is in not doing something positive about what is before us. It is always easier to blame others, but that only perpetuates and oftentimes worsens the situation; it does not solve or at least make it better. Let us-each and everyone who has love in their hearts-make sure we have our airplane's oxygen mask on first before we try to help others in an airplane situation. Before we say or do anything that might be damaging, let's check that we're stably logged in to our own goodness, that we keep a lasting awareness of the good within, our kabutihang-loob, our goodwill for all in full measure, in its myriad forms, all beautiful and delightful, mahalikha, creations of love, creations of the Highest. This is the true culture of the Filipino, rooted in the Greek word philos, loving. "No love, not a Filipino." Let us devote ourselves to this kabutihang-loob cause so that we can make a qualitative change for the better. There is no stronger root of the strength of a nation than the goodwill that they share together equally, simply but powerfully from each one's mindful awareness of staying in our divine office of goodness. Let the power of inner goodness flow and transform our nation.

 My suggestion to our Dutch brother-who vented his current viewpoint of Filipino culture using the disaster that just happened as the "smoking gun" of his perception of what Filipino culture is-is to go to his good space first, and see how that feels. If he likes it, he can stay in that feeling, his own ultimate treasure: his kabutihang-loob. Then he can learn more about what is at the foundation of Filipino (and Humankind's) cultural common wealth: kabutihang-loob, goodwill for all. He apparently needs some love :) but first he has to find himself worthy of love and give love to himself. Then he can recognize and accept love that comes from others, including Filipinos. He might be pleasantly surprised that his family relations will improve if he hangs around more in his kabutihang-loob space more often than not. We are not perfect, but we (Humankind) are all working at it. We can help each other do that. Wild generalizations and name-calling disrespects those who do not fall in the category of those disrespectful words. It is best to avoid using them if we are seriously committed to the path of sharing God's Light and Love.

So I won't call him names either; instead, I send him my blessings and prayers for his enlightenment on his own Divine Truth, his family's Divine Truth, and onward outward until it encompasses awareness of the Divine nature of all beings. Life and existence comes from One Divine Source and there is no life nor existence outside of It.

Good day and God bless All!

Shyam

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Joydee Robledo-Elizondo  (New Zealand-based co-founder of Saniblakas Foundation): i couldn't help but feel immense gratitude for sharing your divine loving experience/thoughts/being especially on this one. i think we need doses of these communicated divine love, wisdom, every so often to help us live in conscious awareness of who we really are. i don't exactly know how to express how i feel using my mind. maybe because i think it's beyond thinking.
salamat :)

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Surf Reyes  (Quezon City-based member of Pamayanang Saniblakas, LightShare, Lambat-Liwanag. Sanib-Sining, etc.):  

@Shyam: Beautifully said! An enlightened view from the TOP (Transcendent Observation Post). From the silence of listening, hearing beyond the angry voices the cries for help from fear...
@Joydee: Ang galing-galing mo! :-) Your mind cannot tell what your heart knows so well...
salamat :)

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Atty. Manuel F. Almario  (Quezon City-based veteran national journalist from Masbate province; spokesperson, Movement for Thruth in History):  

It is unfortunate that some senators browbeat and threatened the media for the Aug, 23 hostage tragedy during a public hearing.  The rescue effort dismally failed not because of the media but because of the gross incompetence of the police.

The media are being used as convenient scapegoat to divert public attention from the government’s bungling.  Former Sen. Aquilino Pimentel said it right: If not for the media coverage, the public would not know of the police’s inability to deal with hostage situations of that scale.  The government is now doing its best to correct the deficiency and to prevent similar fiascos in the future.  The media should be praised rather than condemned.

Senate President Juan Ponce Enrile and Sen. Joker Arroyo criticized media for embarrassing Filipinos before the world.  But isn’t transparency supposed to be a mark of good government? Is the prospect that the country would be embarrassed by the disclosure of government blunders a reason for muzzling the press?  In fact, Hong Kong media have issued a statement commending the Philippine press for its adept coverage of the incident.

Our senators and officials should learn from the US Supreme Court decision in the case of New York Times v. United States, upholding the right of newspapers to publish the Pentagon Papers.  The US government had claimed the publication of the Pentagon Papers, which bared lapses in the then ongoing US war against Vietnam, would endanger national security. In their concurring opinion, Justices Black and Douglas wrote:

“In the First Amendment the Founding Fathers [of the US] gave the free press the protection it must have to fulfill its essential role in our democracy.  The press was to serve the governed, not the governors.  The Government’s power to censor the press was abolished to that the press would remain forever free to censure the Government.  The press was protected so that it could bare the secrets of government and inform the people.  Only a free and unrestrained press can effectively expose deception in government.  And paramount among the responsibilities of a free press is the duty to prevent any part of the government from deceiving the people and sending them off to foreign lands to die of foreign fevers and foreign shot and shell.  In my view, far from deserving condemnation for their courageous reporting, the New York Times, the Washington Post, and other newspapers should be commended for serving the purpose that the Founding Fathers saw so clearly.”

And yet the hostage rescue fiasco was not even a national security matter. It was merely about “embarrassing” the government.  In that case, even cases of graft and corruption, human rights violations, jueteng scandals and massacres should not be published or aired because they cause the country “embarrassment.”  We might as well abolish the press.

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Ding Reyes  (at the Masbate Press Summit, Sept. 11, 2010): I  prefer to refuse to answer the question i have just been given, as to who i think should be blamed primarily for the tragic ending of the recent hostage crisis in Manila.  I will give my opinions, all right, but even as my mere opinions, i would prefer that they be given after i hear first your clear answers to my own question on the same matter: Who deserves to be praised in that incident and its bloody ending? For the sake of peace-loving sense of responsibility, we do have to suspend our old "convenient" habit of finger-pointing, and seek instead to start developing a new one, akin to giving credit where credit is due.  How about that?  Anyone???

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'Collective Knowledge... for Thinnest Slice of Omniscience'

Thread started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag

Ding Reyes (Sept 2): Our best bet in any quest for even just the “thinnest slice of Omniscience” may be collective knowledge. Imagine if those legendary ten blind men were kept apart by walls of mutual distrust and prevented from sharing their observations from their separate hand-scanning probes on what an elephant really was!

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Dolly Flosie Palisada (Sept 2): Freedom to express opinion, freedom to speak, even freedom to think according to one's beliefs are the most sought-after freedoms in our democracy. If we will contain our thoughts inside our mind and not share it with anybody because we've prevented by fear, mistrust, then the world will eventually cease to exist. For peoples to co-exist and the world to grow, we need each and everyone else idea. Work on it. Actualize it. Use it. Be effective. Let it work for yourself and other people, above all.

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Rem Tanauan (Sept 3): ...and the thickest would be the "collective unconscious" =)

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'Unpeace in One Causes Unpeace in Many'

Thread started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag

Ding Reyes (Aug 24): Yesterday's hostage-taking tragedy has moved me to realize our peace-building work as, indeed, very complicated, very difficult, but very urgently important. Unpeace in one created unpeace in many. Temptations are increasingly strong to give up altogether, but they're just that-- temptations. Let's keep right on working, and review some of our basics in http://lambat-liwanag.8m.net/14.htm.

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Joey Mamalayan Burgos: You know, Ding, the problem that I am seeing in our country is that the people in the government deals with the problem only once it already happened, most especially when the tragedy becomes so tragic, have attracted world attention and created negative diplomatic repercussions. They tend to be so passive rather that pro-active in dealing with crises. And to add insult to injury, the “ningas cogon” metaphor is still evident. Once the issue died down, everything is back to normal as if nothing happened. Example: It is only after an aftermath of a strong typhoon and flooding that the concerned government agency will lay out their contingency plans and so on and so forth. Same thing when there are incidents of fire, earthquake and to say the least, the last hostage crisis that we had. Blaming and finger pointing seems to be the name of the game.

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Cel Cadahing Ocampo (Laguna-based school teacher): (We) Gathered all the pupils and students from Grade 4 to 4th year in an assembly to discuss about the hostage-taking incident that happened last night, to negate the possibility of trauma among our young students. We followed it with a short but very meaningful discussion on PEACE and why everybody should choose peace instead of violence. If only PEACE reigned in everyone's heart!

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Pinky Serafica:  Sky (Pinky's toddler daughter): "Mommy, bakit ba palagi na lang ang bus na 'yun ang nasa news?"

My tongue itched with ready answers about justice, police brutality, about who is hero and what is villain, about why life is so short and cheap here. Instead I change the channel and wonder what to say to a daughter whose peace and happiness are still intact -- and how not to break them with my take on this deep unpeace.

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Mom Pinky’s Response to Daughter Sky

‘Weaving Peaces Around the People who are Around the People Around You’

Pinky Serafica:  (Sky is Pinky's toddler daughter):  

Dearest, dearest Sky,

I finally seize the little time between writing-cooking-eating to encode this from an earlier journal entry especially now that you have loudly complained, "Mommy, bakit ba palagi na lang ang bus na 'yun ang nasa news?" 

For girls, Anak, peace is personal because violence is immediate and near. I'd like to say it is in the immediate outside, past the skin, past the sweat, and if we are lucky, meters away from our aura, away from the protective circles we cast.
In Facebook, I posted about you singing and dancing and me, in awe of your happiness.  I asked: how do I keep you happy?  Just as your dad asks: how do I keep you safe?

I would like to weave peaces around you, my punky-punk-punk, for as long as you breathe so you are able to sing and dance, and open people up and be happy with a five-year old's happiness. But this would mean that I'd have to weave peaces around those around you to keep your peace intact.  And that means that I'd have to weave peaces around the people who are around the people around you.  That will take a lifetime.  So, I will start with your peace and mine. 

This, I can do.  I will protect your core happiness for as long as I can until you can protect it, too. That way, the peace circles will hold. 
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Poong chang, baba,
Skymom   

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H.U.G. -- 'Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill'

Thread started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag

Ding Reyes (Facebook posting): H.U.G. is "Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill." Please speak out on this, why not promote this H.U.G. all around? H.U.G. is  H.U.G. is "Harmony in Unconditional Goodwill!  With it, we'd finally have peace within ourselves, in our circles, families and communities, in the World!  (If you liked this, please frorward or "tag" to your friends!)  Let us send one another this "HUG Energy"  the next few days, weeks and even  beyond!    (See.http://readdingz.blogspot.com/2010/harmony-in-unconditional-goodwill,html and share with me whatever feedback you might receive so we can upload and share that too.  Thanks so much!  

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Shyam Tony Reyes (California-based advocate of human unity ): Unconditional goodwill is not only "possible," it already exists within each of our personal quantum field. Goodwill is kabutihang-loob, state of being, of vibrational experience that does not premise its goodness on external conditions.  By our God-given power of attention, we can attain awareness of and uplifting nourishment from this inner fountain of life itself.  No inner good inside, no life force.  One realization that helps unconditionality is realization that we are personally immersed in the Being of  Creator, all of us, equally, one not more than the other.  The difference lies simply in the capacity to be aware that it is so and act accordingly.  Whether the atom is aware of it or not, it exists, depends on, and follows the laws of, thrives in the space-time continuum.  So, yes, a supra-HUG to you and all existence, and One Big Cosmic Hug to the Transcendent One that made it all possible. :)  

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Mila 'Sam' Reyes Garcia (Founder & Coordinator, SanibDasal Synergetic Interfaith Praying Community): I love HUGS, love to hug and be hugged! The happy love energy that comes with a hug stirs the unconditional goodwill that we all have within us. H.U.G.       

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Rolly Pagaspas (Resources Generation Officer, ACES) : I completely believe in H.U.G. However, there are layers of  acceptance on the 'unconditionality', which is a function of time. All things can be accepted by a person in his lifetime. the shortest acceptance duration by a person is probably a second before he closes his eyes and his breath already cut off. From the time a person realizes the issue, have his stand and declares his non-negotiables, time as an independent factor comes into play. So a person, through another factor, may be a situation, some help from persons or things important to him, will be able to go to another 'level of acceptance' and his unconditional state will be lessened by a measurable quantity of acceptance.

 

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Arlene Andes: 

No worries...I'll share it with others. Thanks Ed.

      

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Carlos Lacanilao: Is that really possible among people? Unconditional??? (answered partially by Shyam Tony Reyes, in his comment above).

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[Ding/Ed Reyes: to Carlos L.: Yes, definitely possible; though not very probable soon for most of us. We can choose to attain such goodwill within ourselves, and this behavior, as pleasantly radiated, will be contagious. We can decide to be part of this slow but sure evolution. It's worth the try!]

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Violence in Masbate, in the Philippines

Thread started by Myrna de la Paz (of California)

Myrna de la Paz (based in California): The violence of poverty is true in Masbate as it is all over the Philippines. When we talk about authentic peace in the Philippines, we have to bring poverty to the forum. Peace as we know is the absence of violence. Poverty is an insidious form of violence, therefore an anti-thesis to peace. A state of social and economic deprivation, poverty devastates a person's physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Poverty robs people of their dignity and self-esteem, often causing the degradation of human values that lead to social decay, chaos, and crime. Any society that wants to achieve peace should take a serious look at its poverty index.

...........If the majority of the population is below the poverty level (which is the case in the Philippines) then, the menacing, dark, dangerous specter of violence looms large over that society. How can peace be achieved in a situation like this? More than ever it is time for the government, think-tanks, and grassroots peace groups to come together and really take an honest look at poverty in the Philippines. (Granting the new president and administration is open to this.) The cause of poverty in the Philippines is systemic. The existing agrarian system with largely foreign multinational-controlled component is unable to generate enough decent-paying jobs and sustainable local services and business. The result is the very high rate of unemployment which is a cancer in the economic bloodstream of the country. Desperate for jobs, many Filipinos take jobs in foreign countries under very harsh and dangerous working conditions. Many even go to work in war-torn Iraq!

...........To think that this is a mind-blowing bomber would be an understatement. Well, what I believe is it's time for a paradigm change in the Philippine socio-economic system to put an end to poverty, and achieve genuine peace. The solution to the problem of poverty is within reach if the Filipino people will keep their minds and hearts to the opportunities of working together with trust, honesty, love, and a resolute determination to make the change.

...........The country's leadership needs to set the tone and example for this change. I mean really change the socio-economic structure. Simply eradicating corruption is like putting a bandaid to o a massive, festering, gaping wound: the system that breeds corruption and all the other socio-economic disorders including poverty. An inconvenient truth and a way of life for Filipinos for centuries, poverty and its violence is real, frightening, an ugly threat to peace. Poverty in the Philippines should end. Taking the challenge of a paradigm change in the socio-economic system of the country is the solution.

...........The new president, administration, and the Filipino people should rise to this task. Only then can the Philippines achieve true peace.

PEACE ALWAYS,

Myrna de la Paz.

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Shayne Merioles: I share this thought and belief. (Myrna's "The solution to the problem of poverty is within reach if...") I believe this is what brought the peacecamp-masbate team together and this is also what we hope to bring to the consciousness of fellow Masbatenos/Filipinos who will participate in this first- ever, and i believe first-of-a-kind peacecamp initiated by our group of peace advocates-healers-artists. I echo this. Thanks! (further comment)

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Ickx Tan: The definition of Poverty is the state of being extremely poor. How does it become violent unless someone who's in that level applies physical force intended to hurt others--that closes in the definition of being violent. Unless someone is explaining the sub-categories about poverty and it's outcome; there should be a word that defines this and not using the word "violence". This is just my opinion.

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Shayne Merioles: One of Galtung's key concepts is structural violence. Often when we use the term "violence," we think of direct or physical violence. But Galtung has seen how violence can have many faces, and that evil can exist in many subtle and evil ways. Structural violence is violence that does not hurt or kill through fists or guns or nuclear bombs, but through social structures that produce poverty, death and enormous suffering. Structural violence may be political, repressive, economic and exploitative, it occurs when the social order directly or indirectly causes human suffering and death.

...........Let me give a few examples of the existence of such non-physical, but brutal violence. In the USA 30 million people live below the poverty line and receive their food from soup kitchens. Others can do whatever they want. When George Bush now wants to do a $ 1,35 trillion tax relief, it will reduce the lived human potential in the poor and perhaps even cause many deaths. Without using guns, Bush creates a structural order where the poor are repressed, and rich get richer. This political move is a subtle kind of violent act, which is possible in the modern society we live in today. George Bush is the opposite of Robin Hood: while Robin Hood stole from the rich and gave to the poor, George Bush takes from the tax money which could have been used for welfare, and gives a tax reduction to those who already are rich."

(source: Structural Violence & the Autonomy of Morals by Andreas Saugstad http://goinside.com/01/6/morals.html)

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Sobriety Needed to Preserve Peace

Thread started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag

Ding Reyes: "Nine-Eleven," that used commercial planes to bomb out of existence the twin towers of World Trade Center in New York, was a heinous crime of unparalleled proportions. It happened on September 11, 2001, and many American voices, including official U.S. government pronouncements instantly built up a campaign that cried for blood. Washington threatened to retaliate with all its might against terrorism and all suspected of being supporters and sympathizers of supposed terrorists.

.........The crime was said to be so atrocious that it purportedly justified action even without having to prove guilt on the part of anyone. Psy-war flew thick as the smoke at the crime scene cleared. Entire citizenries were being agitated to take the side of American grief and indignation. Those who dared to publicly doubt the official story were suspected and targeted for harassment.

.........But Humankind was not about to be drawn into a stampede of hate. Peace-loving people around the world, including many Americans, held prayer and discussion sessions for peace to hold against the fires of collective fury.

.........And as ancient future-seer Nostradamus came to be quoted, a group of peace-lovers in the Philippines brought to life a counterpart character crying out loud for keeping our sanity in sobriety. That call, in ten quatrains, was Our Truth. And his name was "Nostraverus."

.........Let's read and discuss those insightful quatrains of that collective poem in this web page: http://saniblakas.faithweb.com/NOSTRAVERUS.htm. And learn timeless valuable lessons about peace and its much needed defense.

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Erik Villanueva (leader in cooperativism): 

The 9-11 attacks were atrocious.

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Ding Reyes: They were atrocious, but not a valid excuse to skip due process esp. the necessity to prove the guilt of any suspect about to be punished with counter-atrocities.

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Erik Villanueva: 9-11 and other terrorist attacks do not justify the sufferings of innocents anywhere from whatever source, but they justify every action to stamp out terrorism using military and other means. They are attacks on humanity, and so are the attacks on, say, MV Rachel Corrie by Israel.  Humanity is at war with terrorists and warmaking states and peacemakers must see this as starting point unless they want the peace of cowards without conviction.

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Ding Reyes: the other extreme is to favor endless overreactions to overreactions, like the US overreactions to their own suspicions about Iraqi WMDs (weapons of mass destruction), mounting a full-scale invasion the UN security council had voted against, and unable to find any WMDs, admitted later by CIA to have been unproven, settled for capturing the Iraqi oil supply, while keeping the attempt to project a "moral high ground" for themselves as policemen of the world, and getting the Philippines and Spain into the coalition of the gullible (at least not of the cowards?). Peace, Erik!

 

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Rex Deveraturda (businessman in Zambales): Any act that results in the death or injury of parties not directly involved in the game of war or struggle is inhuman and would easily fall under the category of terrorism. Be it by a group of like-believers or by a nation that thinks it has policeman's role to play in the world's politico-economic arena. We must condemn any and all acts that kill innocent lives, destroy peace and squander our chance to Live as One.

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Erik Villanueva: You are right, they are not cowards in a sense. but to get along with your US-bashing, they are cowards in the sense that they take on only militarily weak Iraq and Afghanistan and leaves China and the Saudis alone. despite US bunglings, saying there is no basis for the war on terror will not make peacemaking credible. Yea, man! Peace, man!

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Ding Reyes: I've been called names before, and "US basher" has been among them. In the Epilogue of my book, Demands of Dignity, launched February 4 last year (http://demands-dignity.8m.net), explain my attitude that terrorist attacks even of the distant past have to be remembered and learned from: "Inevitably, eventually, and ultimately, all wrongs cry out to be fully acknowledged, regretted and set aright. Your peace of mind now and in the future demands it. Your very dignity demands it." If we are to apply my friend Rex Deveraturda's point above to the Nuclear bombing of both Hiroshima and Nagasaki in Japan exactly 65 years ago today, in August 6, 1945, it would not be mere "US bashing" to say those twin bombings in the two cities are terrorist acts not to be forgotten just because the Nine-Eleven bombings were allededly by "Al Quaeda terrorists" while those in Japan were even proudly claimed officially by the government of the US of A.

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Anger Punishes... the Angry!

Thread started by Ding Reyes of Lambat-Liwanag

Ding Reyes: "Anger Punishes. 

Anger unreasonably punishes... the Angry."

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Shayne Merioles: True. This is why i always forgive, always surrender, always let go, more often, cry the hurt/pain away.       It works!

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Ding Reyes: Peace pa rin ba yon, kahit unfair sa 'yo? Kahit you feel there is something you need to weep about?.
(Nagi-guilty tuloy ako... have i driven you to tears without even knowing it? Sorry! Sana, kahit di mo ako komprontahin, dahil hindi ka nga confrontational, 'umaray' ka man lang sana, para ma-lift ko ang paa kong nakatapak pala sa paa mo!)   Is your response still peace?

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Shayne Merioles: It is peace. I do not even wish to inflict suffering on my "offender(s)." I temporarily take on the "burden."
And in the suffering act of crying , it's as if the Universe is my surgeon, my mother, my healer. She takes care of my anger, loneliness, agony -- she takes them away. She takes care of those who have trespassed against me.

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Ding Reyes: Sabagay, i once wrote a poem which says, in part...
(This poem, For Stronger Souls and Soles, may be read in
http://bookmakers-phils.8m.net/wishpers-1.htm#13.)

On that path are many a pebble,

That annoy us as irritating prickles;

But little things need not cause trouble

Had we only learned to feel them as tickles.

Souls that still have so much to discover

Can understandably be quite irritable;

Grains, pebbles, they’d try to shun forever,

Realizing later they’d never be able.

Light of Wisdom shining in our souls

On such attitudes seeks an amendment—

Little things that irritate our soles

Can just be objects of amusement.

Let's get back to the subject of anger. As long as there's no anger that needs to be repressed. Yun, malinaw pa sigurong may peace pa rin doon. You feel the pain without suffering that pain. Drain the sorrow or indignation, as tears always have to be drained, while it could still cause the tears to mount within your heart (tear glands, actually), but learn the soonest to be protected by your wisdom not to be affected that much anymore. Maybe you have already attained that state or are already close to it! Malayo pa yata ako, eh! And my anger still punishes me terribly with the feeling of being angry.

 

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Jenny Marie Aquino: Do you get angry often? Do you blow your top over small matters? Remember, when you get angry, you're actually hurting yourself. Your sleep, your appetite your blood pressure and your health are affected. Even your looks become hardened. In anger you can't think straight. An angry person can't find peace of mind.

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Smiley Heartthrob: Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy.

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